The runs between happening and not happening. The desire to do and not to do is a hairline difference. Sometimes, all you know if life is," i will give everything my best shot and till last breath" and you just know that if you want something you want it. You know the target and rest everything will find its way. I saw a lady scolding her kid few days back in a super market and typically using the word "Stubborn". I had been watching the kid, particularly because he was cute and i liked his attitude. He was observant and with cautious thinking and using rationale he picked up a box of chocolate which he thought was small and should not be an issue for his mom. However, for all good reasons as per her mom he should not have had chocolates. :( He kept quite for sometime and then lay straight on the floor with chocolate in hand and focus to eat. Mum scolded him again, this time he took the chocolate out and put it in his mouth with eyes sht as her very well knew that a slap was coming his way. :D.. I dont know, people may call him stubborn, i totally loved it. kids have this undying power and focus and they have fool proof strategies to attain what they want. As we grow, we just lose the so called "stubbornness" to get what we want. I think this hair line journey between happening and not happening is decided by the element of wanting it till end sometimes...