Wednesday, January 23, 2008

Failures- No they are not bad :)

Some thoughts are cliched. Some situations have been categorized. Some conditions have been jinxed. Reason- We the human, did not have great feeling about them and the perception that we built was negative.
One of such a wonderful situation that comes into everyone's life is failure. Failure in education, business, relations and for some people its failure to live.
A thought crosses my mind, is failure really a wrong notation? Is it such a bad thing to happen? When i give a lot of thought to failures and analyze the people around me who have failed, i know that each one who failed is a better human today. Failures are not bad, they are opportunities that life throws on one to let him know that he can better himself for he is worth more than what he currently is.
Had it not been for failures, people would have never stretched their limits and moved beyond their horizons. It was failure to survive which stretched the limits of life on earth that we evolved into humans that we are today.
Its not the trouble. Its nature's way of challenging humans. Those who fight them right, survive and evolve. Those who get bogged down by failures, get into a negative mode of life.
With time i have come to believe that humans are very very strong. The key player is mind. God will provide every human with opportunities to stretch his limits and evolve, its the approach with which we analyze those situations and act that differentiates us. Every time we fall, if we stretch our limits, we will overcome one weakness.
Failures are not bad, they are the doors to success. So, if you have never failed in life, you are in a bubble phase of life, someday for sure things will fall apart and then life will seek the testimony of your being human. If you have faced failures, smile, you have a point extra in the curriculum of life. :)

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